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5 months agoon
Celebrity fashion designer and social media influencer, Veekee James, has sparked debate online following her advice to married women not to deny sexual intimacy to their husbands, even when they are exhausted.
The designer, who has been married for over a year, shared the advice during a conversation with her sister-in-law, amid her experience as a newlywed.
Veekee stressed that maintaining sexual intimacy is crucial for a strong marital bond. According to her, even when women are too tired to engage fully, making small efforts to meet their husbands’ emotional and physical needs can help foster the relationship.
“I have at least almost a year and a half of marriage experience. So don’t deny your husband sex; it’s not a lie. Sometimes you might be so tired that you cannot move, and the last thing you want is anyone touching you,” she said.
She drove home her point, by exerting: “Heck, on some days, you may be able to see that he looks like he’d go and die in the bathroom. My sister, just lie down and open your legs; you don’t need to do anything, just make the crooked way straight.”
While explaining the importance of effort, Veekee also encouraged healthy communication in marriage. She noted that women should express their fatigue in a gentle and understanding manner, especially when they are not too drained.
“But on days when you’re not really too tired, you’d just have to know how to say it and pet him so that he would see you’re also so tired,” she added.
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